Love Languages & How They Affect Your Relationships

Love Language Scenario / Explanation - Acts of Service Have you ever gotten so overwhelmed by all that you have to do, that you end up not getting any of it done? Or think to yourself, man..I wish I could go back to being a kid. My parents would take care of this for me instead of just having all of this on my back. Now, how would you feel if someone you love did just that? You come back home from a draining 8 hour shift mixed with commute and an empty stomach, to now all the work you let pile up at home. But, huh? It's all..done. The floors are mopped, the dishwasher is fixed and the lights no longer have that weird flicker that gave you a headache.  Relief. Appreciation. Love. A person who values Acts of Service tends to be accustomed to doing everything on their own. And with that in mind, things can often times get overwhelming for this person. They have a list that just keeps on piling, and they know the only way to get it all done is to get it done .  People who thrive o...

Love Language Scenario / Explanation - Quality Time Mmh quality time. It sounds a bit intimidating to some. When you hear someone, lets say a lover, state to you... "I want to hangout and spend time with you." For many, the brain automatically searches for fun and exciting things to do. Like making a day of going out into the city, going to comedy shows, arcades, and amusement parks. For some, the first thing that comes to mind are  expenses. Over time we have been taught that spending time with someone you like = making it worth their while. This may mean, an expensive dinner or a full day of activities. But in reality, what they are saying is "I want to spend quality time with you."  Quality time ≠ What you do or how much you spend, but the quality of mental and emotional stimulation as well as attentiveness. Be present in the moments you share with your significant other. More times than not, when someone's love language is Quality time, it's because this...

Love Languages - Which One Is Yours? Love Languages are made up of 5 components: Physical touch Affirmations Acts of service Quality time Gifts But, what are  love languages? What importance do they hold? What do they contribute to you as a person?  Well, these five components contribute to the wants and needs for you within your relationships. Whether this be with siblings, friends, or lovers. They're extremely important! These wants and needs are what make you, you.  It's how you love and want to be loved in return. At the end of the day, these qualities being fulfilled are what is going to separate a successful or unsuccessful relationship. So get to know yourself! Get to know your partner, your friends, and family by determining which are the most prominent and important to you and your loved ones.  Overview of each language -  Physical touch : Hugging, cuddling, hand holding, anything of that nature makes you feel the most loved. This is how you w...