Love Languages & How they Affect Your Relationships - Acts of Service

Love Language Scenario / Explanation - Acts of Service

Have you ever gotten so overwhelmed by all that you have to do, that you end up not getting any of it done? Or think to yourself, man..I wish I could go back to being a kid. My parents would take care of this for me instead of just having all of this on my back. Now, how would you feel if someone you love did just that? You come back home from a draining 8 hour shift mixed with commute and an empty stomach, to now all the work you let pile up at home. But, huh? It's all..done. The floors are mopped, the dishwasher is fixed and the lights no longer have that weird flicker that gave you a headache. 

Relief. Appreciation. Love.

A person who values Acts of Service tends to be accustomed to doing everything on their own. And with that in mind, things can often times get overwhelming for this person. They have a list that just keeps on piling, and they know the only way to get it all done is to get it done. 

People who thrive off of this love language, do so because it makes them feel not only seen, but heard. A partner noticing how much their significant other has on their plate and taking the initiative in doing some of these tasks for them is monumental in their mind. They aren't used to that. Not asking for help and receiving it anyway from someone who has a plenty to do of their own, speaks volumes. After all, actions triumphs words!

Or lets say, your partner has got it all together and under control. They don't let you notice how much they actually have to do but you fill their gas tank up anyway. You restock on their favorite snacks. You record their favorite show so they can watch at the end of the day. Things that you don't have to do, but do it for them anyway shows them that you love them.

These acts of service lead up to that feeling of fulfillment. The physical expression of a thoughtful gesture, giving up some of your time so they can have more time in their day, is appreciated beyond belief. 

If you have a loved one who's love language is Acts of Service, a task that may seem small to you can mean a hell of a lot to them! 

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